Maybe Mike or Jane is going through that. Often the best advice is the one you don't ask for and like the least. Anyone willing to hook up with your friend behind your back is not worth the time of day. Share this article via facebook Share this article via twitter Share this article via messenger Share this with Share this article via email Share this article via flipboard Copy link. The fact that this girl did this to you is probably making you feel insecure about girl friendships.
From Our Readers July 16,
Is it OK to date your ex’s friend?
The real problem with this whole situation is the labelling. And shouldn't have to say no simply because of the fact they're your ex's friend. Her dating Mike, in fact, did not surprise me that much. If you get over the past relationship, you can say something like "Remember when I said I didn't want to talk about John? Call other friends and make plans to hang out or put yourself in social situations so that you can meet new friends. Ask your friend to avoid talking about the relationship around you.