She told me right after she did it to make sure i felt the pain. I even told him that I would block him on fb cause it wound be to painful for me to see him with her. Then around mid october out of nowhere he states he's unhappy and he's been unhappy for a while and that I treated him like shit for 9 years. If no contact did not work, you might want to think about why she may be acting this way. There's not much that can be done at this point, except to either win him back or to wait it out and hope it's merely a phase he's going through.
But it looks like he might be seeing someone hes know her his whole life, they breifly dated when they were 13 and have mutual friends and work near eachother im now questioning his reasons for the break up and if he actually rekindled with her or they started to talk after the break up.
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Now i am confused if this guy is even worth loving for after all what he did or is he just trying to fool me around again knowing how much I loved him so hes taking an advantage? Like he didn't want to work things out but he didn't wanna let go either. How should I approach winning her back when she gets here because I know she will still very much have feelings for me as I do for her I just need to get them out of her? In the meantime, I would suggest applying No Contact and first focus on picking yourself up before deciding again what you should do. He said it's not cheating because he been told me he wasn't happy. How long do the rebound relationship usually last?