You can do it. At the most concrete level, we can always ask our partner if and when he will be willing to meet us at the level of commitment we desire. Does he see you late at night or during happy hour on the weekdays only? If not having a commitment is negatively impacting you, then have a talk with the other person. A good basic rule is this: And not everyone gets married after a certain amount of time.
Shannon Behar, MFT — www.
I Slept With A Guy For Two Years Hoping He’d Commit, And This Is Where It Got Me
You can do it. It's important to meet both types. Anything they do after this point, is simply for their happiness and satisfaction. You will be able to recognize a man who wants you as his girlfriend. In terms of waiting for a man to commit to you; only you know how long you are willing to wait. Take your time to regroup, be active, change your social lifestyle a bit, get a new haircut, etc. After 2 years of nothing, please walk away.